Everybody has different natures in this world. Inspite of being disciples of the same Guru, all do not have the same qualities. But we should adjust to the envoirnment around us. The father of Prahlad was not devotee and his son Virochan was also not devotee but Prahlad, spending his life in one-pointed devotion, did brilliant adjustment with both. He never dishonoured his father Hiranyakshipu and neither expressed anger to his son Virochan. If we see maladjustment, we shall be disturbed and we cannot concentrate on the object of worship and we forget everything, what for we have got this human birth.
We are to adjust ourselves with the environment, we can never make the environment adjusted to us.